August 2, 2012

Grady is here!

Hello world!!!
We are thrilled to announce the arrival of our son Grady Christopher Johnson!  Apparently this little man loves the Olympics as much as his mama and didn't want to miss any of the action.  He was born at 6:54pm on July 29th and weighed in at 7 pounds 7 ounces and was 21 inches long. We are so in love!

39 weeks! The end.
Little stinker came 5 days early.
Right before leaving for the hospital.

Here are some pics from Grady's first 24 hours.  I will hold off on posting the other several hundred pics (only a slight exageration) I've taken since we got home for now and will post them in the next couple of days.










Going home!


Mainly for my own purposes, here is the summary of Grady's birth.

On Saturday night after watching Lochte win gold, we showered and got ready for bed around 11:00 o'clock.  Chris was already in bed when I notified him that "uhhhh, I think my water just broke." We headed to the hospital and were checked into our room by 2:00 a.m.  Upon check in, I was also re-informed by the nurse how small my pelvis is and the likelihood of a delivery by C-section, a reality that I'd come to accept. Something was in the air in Boise because I was the 8th woman who checked in to labor and delivery that night whose water had broken, but hadn't gone in to active labor.  To give perspective, the hospital delivers around 120 babies per month so 8 in one night is a ton and only 8-10% of women have their water break before they go in to labor.

The hospital was short staffed to be able to handle the volume of women that night and so we sat without contractions until 10:30 a.m., when the nursing ratio was at a point where they could give me Pitocin to start contractions.  Once the Pitocin was administered, my contractions came hard and fast.  We seemed to shock our nurses when 2 hours later I was dilated to a 6 and half hour later was at an 8 when I was given the heaven sent epidural (power to the mamas who go all natural, but I am not one of them).  Thank goodness for the epidural because when I reached a 10 within that hour, they made the decision that my best chance of avoiding a C-section was to let my body "labor down".  Laboring down is the process of letting a woman's body try to work a baby through the pelvis on its own when she is otherwise ready to start actively pushing.  So again, there we sat for 3 and a half hours.  Again, I praise whoever invented the epidural because I would not want to have endured that without pain management. 

Finally, we were given the green light to try to push. Things were going well until little G-man's heart rate began to drop with each contraction.  I could tell our nurse was beginning to become alarmed and the next thing I knew 7 nurses and Dr.'s were in the room (remember this is with the short staffing).  At that point I knew they wanted the baby out and wanted him out fast.  They told us that they would try to use a vacuum to assist with labor and that I had two contractions to get him out or else they'd have to do a C-section.  So through tears and prayers and a little help from modern technology,  I avoided a C-Section by the narrowest of margins.  I joke that Grady was born vacuum sealed and kissed by an angel (the mark on his forehead is called an angel kiss - also referred to as a stork bite when it is on the back of the neck).  Our little man had a round yamaka looking bruise on his head, but otherwise came out of his traumatic birth just fine and we couldn't be more grateful.  When they put him on my chest, I totally lost it.  I couldn't believe that he was finally here and Chris proudly announced his name to the nurses, "Grady Christopher Johnson." 

Through it all, Chris was the best support person that a person could ask for.  Our marriage is different, it is better.  Becoming parents has certainly changed things on its own, but going through the process of labor with all of its ups and downs together as a team changed our relationship in a profound way. 

July 28, 2012

Murphy Wedding!



I am late in posting this, but I'd be sad not to be able to highlight the wedding of my college roommate and dear friend Lisa. I had to steal photos from various folks (thanks again Stace). About a month ago, I had the opportunity to be a bridesmaid in one of the most beautiful and unique weddings ever. Lisa's sweetheart is a pilot and they were fittingly married in an a airplane hanger with John flying all of the groomsmen in. Their eye for design turned this hanger into quite the awesome setting!

801 girls!!
2012 801 mamma baby bump!
2011 & 2012 801 mammas (sans Tara)!
The wedding was beautiful and overflowing with love, friendship and happiness.  It was so much fun to celebrate with Lisa and John and I was so happy that I could be a part of it all, even if I ruined some wedding photos with what I affectionately referred to as "being the big blueberry." Congratulations you guys, you could not have had a better wedding!

The photographers had a photobooth like set-up, but it was even cooler than other's I've seen.
So much fun!

July 22, 2012

Belly Shots


I was not inclined to get any maternity photos at all.  I am not one of those people who feels attractive in my body of late and I figured if I ever really wanted to remember what I looked like pregnant, I have this blog that I can look at anytime.  On a whim when I found out that I would have some spare time before bridesmaid time kicked in on our trip to L.A., I asked my dear friend and wonderful photographer Stacy if she'd mind snapping some shots of us. 

We hadn't planned for it ahead of time so we pulled out things from our suitcase without much thought and headed down to the beach by our hotel.  In broad sunlight and with awkward subjects, Stace made her magic work.  I am so grateful to have these pictures to document this time in our lives.  I am also so grateful to our dear friend who took time from her vacation on a spur of a moment request by us. She gave us a great gift by sharing her talents with us and I am so glad that we did it.





Stacy lives in the Bay Area and does a beautiful job documenting families in a very natural way.  Her photography blog and personal blogs are linked on the right hand side of this blog. Check out her beautiful photos and darling little boy.  THANK YOU AGAIN STACE!


This little boy will be here soon!

July 15, 2012

The Better Bath

This weekend we had the not so unusual problem of a dirty Bella.  With weekend yard work including taking out a small tree and a mini rainstorm we got this:

The solution is usually tossing the Bels in the bath for a quick rinse, but today she got a rinse of a different kind at the river. Our little water fearing dog has grown to love water. After a week of 100 degree plus weather topping out at 108 on two days with Phoenix being the only hotter city in the country, we enjoyed our 95 degree "cool down" on the river. I soaked my swollen feet, Bella played fetch, and Chris watched Bels enjoy the river like a proud papa.


Love the double ear-flop.



Had to include this because Chris is so proud that she puts her head in the water.  If he is this proud of his dog, I cannot wait to see how proud he will be of his son.


I know we'll love the baby more than our dog, but Bella will always be our first baby.  Love this girl and the joy she brings to us every day.

And yes, I am still very pregnant and I know that the world at large wonders (or worries about) when this baby is coming because at least once a day for the past two weeks I've been asked by perfect strangers when I am due.  Some random strangers tell me nice sweet things, some just sympathize with what it must be like to be pregnant with 108 degree heat, and others make comments that are better ignored.  I now know what it means to tell a very pregnant lady that she looks cute and I am going to make an effort to do it to in the future because it is much better than the contrary comments.  The Dr. thinks the baby could come early so stay tuned.  I always thought we would have an August boy, but we'll just have to sit tight and see what month he prefers.


Whoa big momma!

July 8, 2012

Savoring the Quiet Life

This week we'll hit the 37 week mark, which means that the baby will technically be considered full term even though a pregnancy is typically 40 weeks.  With the baby just around the corner, we are spending our weekends being sure to do a little of this:

and a little of this:

I even slept in later than I've slept in in probably 5 years while Chris spent his Saturday morning flyfishing. We can't wait to meet our son and to officially enter into parenthood together, but we also know that life will change in more ways than we can fathom.  So we are really trying to soak up our time together and our time with Ms. Bella.

(I have to blog about our trip to L.A. and the wonderful wedding of my college roommate, but I figured carrying around our son all weekend was enough so I didn't lug my camera anywhere. I am completely dependent on other people's pics. . .  post to come once I can steal a few pics).